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It's OK to Be Mad!

March 26, 20237 min read

OK Sis, This May Sound Strange But, Hear Me Out...

Ephesians 4:26-27 Be ye angry, and sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath: Neither give place to the devil"

"It's OK to Be Mad!" This is one of the chapters inside my book, "It's OK to Tell My Story, Surviving Common Law Domestic Violence" where I literally had to remind myself I had every right to be mad at the trauma filled relationship I experienced, the devastation it caused, how I felt and all the things.

Well guess what?

The same applies to us as female entrepreneurs too. When I coach biz women on how to face biz fear; the first thing I tell them is to identify the emotion you feel or you'll never succeed.

Once you can accept where you...that's how you'll be able to move past your biz fear. If you're thinking to yourself,

"But, I'm a Christian female entrepreneur and we shouldn't get mad at our failures, lack of sales, rude customers, etc."

I'm about to bust that bubble...

It's not a sin to be angry and God knows you're gonna be angry because yes you're a Christian but, you're also part human.

Now don't get it twisted, if you're committing some sort of injustice and being malicious with intent on harming someone because of the anger i.e. not giving customers your absolute best, cheating your clients (time, money), not balancing your peace and purpose, etc....gurl, that's not right! Stop it; that's definitely a sin.

Instead, try this. Don't stay in that anguish and allow those thoughts to derail you from your purpose. Activate your faith and remember, God will turn even failures for the good of those that believe in him (SPOILER ALERT: that's you gurl). It's all for his glory; but, you'll have to do the work.

Pray for the Lord and the Holy Spirit to help you with not harboring any resentment, bitterness towards naysayers and for goodness sake anything that might be portrayed as a sin.

Ask the Lord to show you who to forgive, how to move past it, what you need to do within yourself, and what activities i.e. volunteer in your biz to help you get past it.

Then turn it over to the Lord, ask him to use it for his glory and let something good come from it and help you to see the lesson of goodness from the anger. 


And that's what you have to do beautiful...

Remind yourself that your God is bigger than any biz fear that pops up. Stay in your bible sista wearing that full armor of God so when a biz fear does arise and doesn't turn out the way you thought it would; remember that God will still use it for his glory to take you to something even better!

Here's what I know to be true about Impossible to Possible women, they can't live in faith and fear consistently. It's human nature to experience a lack of faith, but the Holy Spirit will help guide you back so you can start believing in God's promises and trusting him again.

Pray to God everyday to give you the wisdom, confidence, strength and victory over all of your biz fears. Ask God to enable you to feel his love and peace as you wait to hear the Holy Spirit guide you on how to use your gifts and purpose appropriately in accordance with God's plan.

As long as you keep God at the center of your Spiritual Peace Journey, keep it consistent, private and intimate between you, God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit; you’ll do just fine.

You have a choice to make today sista...

Either still say you can't and don't believe in yourself and God's plan OR say you can trust the Lord, activate your faith and identify the biz fear that is trying to keep you from going from Dream Chaser to Achiever and crush it!

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You'll Do Just Fine!

As long as you keep God at the center of your journey, keep it consistent, private and intimate between you, God, Jesus and the Holy Spirit.

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You Got This Sis!

Stay Blessed Beautiful 💞 Gwendolen




Gwendolen Wilder is a highly sought-after business coach who specializes in helping struggling and overwhelmed female entrepreneurs tell their biz fears to KICK ROCKS!

Published Best-selling Co-author, featured on international, national and local platforms, Go-To-Media Expert in Business Coaching and Domestic Violence for Lynn Smith, National Media Expert, Veteran Journalist, NBC News, MSNBC and CNN Headline News Anchor Alum, and Founder of Rylan Media. As well as being featured by the Female Entrepreneur Association founded by Carrie Green, Fox 29, News 4, KSAT 12, San Antonio Living, Women of Influence, etc. she mentors her community of 35,000+ female entrepreneurs and followers teaching them exactly how to turn a biz fear into a positive profitable business opportunity.

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Gwendolen is a Certified Business Strategist and Published Author who empowers struggling and overwhelmed female entrepreneurs using her signature branding, marketing and sales strategies so they can confidently tell their biz fears (obstacles) to KICK ROCKS and acquire financially independence which leads to finally Living Your Best Blessed Life.

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